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Tuesday, May 24, 2011

KISSING FROGS...WAITING FOR PRINCE CHARMING




Now that I am in my mid-thirties, I have to admit I am finally at a point in my life where I believe that I am smart, articulate and not to mention funny. I am finally comfortable telling people that yes, I am smart and can understand the complexity of things and dare I say life. The only down side to that I believe if there is one, you are program to look for complexities in things when there are none. For example, some time ago I was watching a rerun of the series "Sex and the City: The Big Time" episode 38 (2000), when one of the ladies articulately explained the simplicity of a man. Men, she said, when you meet one and for some reason he decides he is ready to settle down, it's not faith, but timing and just plain dumb luck. You should not take it that he is madly in love, but simply because he is available and his on-dury light is on at the time. Similar to a cab driver. And all the other times he was playing around was because his on-duty light was off and not ready to settle down. She explained, if you happened to be the one he pick up when his on-duty light is on, he will marry you. Needless to say I could not help it, I was surprised at the truthfulness and the simplicity of what she said. But the moral of the story I thought, was not the obvious and that is: Face it! You are going to be kissing some frogs in the meantime. But really that, when he finds you he is going to be at his best because he is already in the marry state of mind and pretty much going to do whatever you want him to do. Also because believe or not, his biological clock is ticking. Therefore he is ripe and ready for the taking. So if you have to kiss some frogs on the way to finding your Prince Charming, then so be it. And trust me, when you find him or rather when he finds you, I have a feeling it's going to be all the things that Heaven is made of. He is going to make you smile for no reason at all. In fact it's going to be okay that he may still look like a frog and not yet transformed into the prince you know he is inside. He is going to speak to your mind, but also keep your body heat on high. I am sure and I say that with all conviction, that nothing will compare to finding that someone who finally gets you; someone you can be yourself around: No pretense, no wondering about his intentions, because he's already made it clear. He is on-duty!

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KISSING FROGS...WAITING FOR PRINCE CHARMING




Now that I am in my mid-thirties, I have to admit I am finally at a point in my life where I believe that I am smart, articulate and not to mention funny. I am finally comfortable telling people that yes, I am smart and can understand the complexity of things and dare I say life. The only down side to that I believe if there is one, you are program to look for complexities in things when there are none. For example, some time ago I was watching a rerun of the series "Sex and the City: The Big Time" episode 38 (2000), when one of the ladies articulately explained the simplicity of a man. Men, she said, when you meet one and for some reason he decides he is ready to settle down, it's not faith, but timing and just plain dumb luck. You should not take it that he is madly in love, but simply because he is available and his on-dury light is on at the time. Similar to a cab driver. And all the other times he was playing around was because his on-duty light was off and not ready to settle down. She explained, if you happened to be the one he pick up when his on-duty light is on, he will marry you. Needless to say I could not help it, I was surprised at the truthfulness and the simplicity of what she said. But the moral of the story I thought, was not the obvious and that is: Face it! You are going to be kissing some frogs in the meantime. But really that, when he finds you he is going to be at his best because he is already in the marry state of mind and pretty much going to do whatever you want him to do. Also because believe or not, his biological clock is ticking. Therefore he is ripe and ready for the taking. So if you have to kiss some frogs on the way to finding your Prince Charming, then so be it. And trust me, when you find him or rather when he finds you, I have a feeling it's going to be all the things that Heaven is made of. He is going to make you smile for no reason at all. In fact it's going to be okay that he may still look like a frog and not yet transformed into the prince you know he is inside. He is going to speak to your mind, but also keep your body heat on high. I am sure and I say that with all conviction, that nothing will compare to finding that someone who finally gets you; someone you can be yourself around: No pretense, no wondering about his intentions, because he's already made it clear. He is on-duty!